machozi

Is this reality or are we all living in a dream...sweat blood and tears are common factors in each individuals life, Am I any different?

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

one crazy crazy weekend!

Saw him this weekend, we’re sort of friends now but for a slight second in time we were more then that…..I think I’m over him but I saw him in this black vest and jeans and then in a towel as he was getting dressed and I couldn’t help but drool on the inside….he is this man who I know I’ll never have again but damn it was fun looking at him jus the tingles in my feet made me wanna smile…. needless to say he hooked up wit some chick later that night and it was cool…so I guess I was over him but I don’t think I’d mind a piece of him in that vest jus for a couple of hours… so they say guys and girls cant be friends I beg to differ.. I’ve grown up with boys most of my life.. Most if not all my neighbors my age were boys and now, two of my closest friends are boys( well I guess now they are men.). In fact I call them my brothers as they are more like family …so to anyone who says that guys and chicks can’t be straight up pals with no other intentions by each party I’d like to be living testament to the fact that guys and girls can be pals … Okay, so now to the point of this issue… a group of us were supposed to go to my pals shagz this weekend which happened to coincides with his girlfriends birthday...now me and this guy are pals and there is nothing more to it so I went to his house all geared up to go but unfortunately things dint go as planned anyhow we decided to buy a few bottles and hang out and had a little house party…later that night his girlfriend starts to cry and to cut a long story short she says that she was jealous of me and the relationship I have with him…. Now honestly I have no intentions on this man other then our close friendship and I thought she understood that but I guess not… so I’m the bad guy now but this is my friend and I don’t think I’m jus going loose him so his girlfriend can be happy…. I guess that’s the bitch in me.. Men are dogs so you’ve either got to live wit them and let some things slide or live without them!

4 Comments:

  • At 5:49 AM, Blogger kipepeo said…

    wow! curazy weekend indeed!! well, i guess miss girlfriend should be able to live with him and you being good friends...she's probably insecure or worried about something and using u as an excuse!

     
  • At 10:52 AM, Blogger Prousette said…

    my two cents put yourself in the miss gf's shoes in the early days when you are just establishing yourself and him and then there is this woman all the time it takes a very strong soul not to be jealous, so give her time and the man involved should stress it to her that you are a friend not competition.

     
  • At 11:36 AM, Blogger kipepeo said…

    machozi i have just tagged you, go to my blog to see what it is that it is that u must do...

     
  • At 9:22 PM, Blogger spicebear said…

    what's with girls and getting all mad at the girl cos ati of relationships with their boyfriends? have been in this situation way too many times just cos some people do not understand that guys and girls can just be friends. hopefully the girl has now tuliad. great post

     

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